I originally tried to post the following story from a cyber-café in Addis, but internet connections, like many things in the developing world cannot be relied on to deliver the dependable service we anticipate in the West. When I got back to the states I discovered that the post had disappeared, never to be seen again.
The café was in a squat little building that opened onto the alley behind our hotel. We tried many cyber-cafés around our hotel, and this one was certainly the slowest. On one side of the café was a travel agency that seemed surprisingly official, given its humble location. The rest of the row of shops was taken up with the kind of clothing stores and other shops that seem to be in the act of vomiting forth their entire product line right as you walk by. In front of every establishment, save the café, a small group of young men stood about talking and eyeing us curiously as we walked past.
We needed only to walk halfway abound the block to get to the café. Regardless, it was still quite a production for being such a short journey. We had not gone 20 yards form the hotel before we had attracted a small army of interested locals, all intent on selling us something. We had the pleasure of their company until we were safely inside the café, and even then their entreaties reached us through the door.
Among the many varieties of hawkers, there were little girls, dressed in rags and seeming only to know the English words “hungry” and “please!”. Despite their unkempt appearance, they all had shoe-box sized trays of gum and mints, as neatly stocked and packaged as any gum display in an American convenience store. At first, my heart went out to them. The more of them we saw, the inevitable question arose. “Where did they get all the gum?”
The all too disheartening answer is that they got the gum from the people they work for. Perhaps it was a parent or relative. Perhaps it was their owner, and they were working as indentured servants or slaves. Likely as not, these little girls, still shy of their first double digit birthday, were probably orphans and were forced to work as beggars in a racket where someone else gets to keep all the profits.
There were also the shoe-shine boys. Usually in their early teens, these boys could be seen all over town carrying their small box of shine and rags. They seemed to be in one of the legitimate informal businesses of the streets, as I saw many an Ethiopian taking advantage of their services. They were quite insistent, and it took a very stern tone to dismiss them, which was harder to muster than I expected. Feeling the lump of money in my pocket, I thought of how glad they would be to have it, but I knew it could be unwise and even dangerous to give in.
Older and more aggressive than these two groups were the “friends.” These men in their early 20s all knew English well, and were eager to make your acquaintance. “Hey! My friend!” they would call from beyond the hotel gate before we even reached it. After that salutation would come a running stream of offers of all kinds. Walking into a business or getting into a car seemed the only way to be rid of them once they latched on to you.
We encountered all these groups on our short walk to the café. The hierarchy was evident, and the little girls were shushed away by the shoe-shine boys who were, in turn, dispatched by the “friends.” We had misjudged the opening time of the café, and were thus subjected to a barrage of questions as we stood on the street for a couple minutes while the girl inside wiped the screens with a damp cloth.
“Who is your friend?”
“Where are you from?”
“Do you want to go on a tour of the city?”
“Do you need a ride somewhere?”
“Do you need a taxi?”
(Here we were mercifully allowed inside. Our interrogators stayed in the doorway, lobbing questions in at us like hand grenades.
“Are you looking for a party?”
“Do you want a girl?”
Scott’s head snapped around. I looked up at the questioner in the doorway. His face was covered in the hideous smile that evil men the world over use to feign trustworthiness when they seek to harm their fellow man. It was an evil, shark’s smile.
“No… we don’t want a girl.” Scott responded in a slow measured tone. His rebuff came out like a threat.
It must have gotten the point across, or that was the last option in the bag, because the men left shortly after, assuring us that they would be around when we needed them.
I sat there dumbfounded. It is one thing seeing a kid on the street reduced to performing a menial task for pennies to survive. It is worse to see kids being forced to sell a product so others can benefit. It is another thing entirely to be offered another human being for pure entertainment or convenience, as though she were no more important than a taxi or a stack of black-market DVD’s.
I don’t know if those two characters could personally have found a prostitute for us if we had agreed to it. I do not doubt, however, that somewhere on the other end of a chain of partners and contacts, a real woman, or more probably, a young girl was waiting for her next bit of work somewhere in a shanty or a low, dirty building. In all probability she was a slave, trafficked in from the countryside of Ethiopia. She may have even been sold by her own family to pay off debt, or simply to buy food. She may have been forced to serve several men a day, never seeing a dime of the substantial profit she was turning for her masters. If she was not already infected with HIV, it is only a matter of time until she will be.
Looking back on this encounter, I am deeply saddened at the willingness of those two men to violate the most fundamental of rules God (and many other religions and social codes) gave for human interaction: to protect and take care of one another. Given the hard, unforgiving life they had probably lived, I suppose their actions are not surprising.
What is surprising, however, is something Scott pointed out to me later. They would not ask visiting foreigners if they wanted a prostitute at the sobering hour of 9:00 in the morning (on a weekday) unless sometimes the answer is “yes”.



